Friday, June 24, 2016
A LIFE WELL LIVED, FOR SURE!
Cathryn Ottun Marcellin
I met Cathy in college. One year behind me, she was the hit of the class that entered little George Pepperdine College in the fall of 1954. She was one of the most personable girls I met in that class and when she walked into a room, the room simply lit up with her bubbly, confident, and cheerful self. She liked everybody, and everybody liked her.
We quickly learned that she was from Bishop, California, and while being in a small college near downtown Los Angeles was, on the one hand, a real treat for her, on the other hand not a day went by that she didn't miss Don Marcellin, her boyfriend, who was "back home."
She gave a great deal to the music department at Pepperdine, which is where I met her. She had a versatile singing voice, capable of doing wonderful things as solos, in trios, and in the full choir. She had a true talent and a stage presence of a professional. Hearing her sing was a real treat. I was lucky enough to sing in the trio with her and became her good friend.
She made sure that even though her heart was in Bishop, she didn't waste time moping around in college. She carried a full load of classes and for social life, pledged a sorority but didn't attend events that required a date. "It's ok," she'd say. "I've got Don waiting for me."
Shortly before the school year ended, she decided she'd had as much time away from Bishop as she wanted and would not return to Pepperdine the following year. For a long time, we kept in touch via Christmas cards and then eventually we lost contact.
It was during my genealogical research a few years ago that I found her name listed on the Social Security Death Index, and I was able to locate her oldest daughter, Sandy, via the Bishop library and the internet. Sandy told me that she had been unwell for some time; heart problems ran in her family, and Cathy died quite suddenly, probably because she didn't want to slow down from spreading the gospel to anyone who would listen. Cathy had become a Christian early in her adult life, and in her obituary I read, "Mrs. Marcellin's family says she never hesitated to share her faith with those around her, and it didn't matter whether she knew you or not." As to the time of her death, Sandy wrote me that "she'd asked a friend to read to her Ephesians 1, out of her 'wordy' Bible (the Amplified)." It was at this time, at the young age of 63, that she passed on. She left two daughters, Sandy and Kelly, a son, Doug, grandchildren and other family members. Her beloved Don preceded her in death.
Cathy is a good example of my idea of an IMMORTAL NOBODY, and I am reminded of a bible verse that certainly applies to her: Matthew 25:21 "…Well done, thou good and faithful servant"